Today completes the first year of our blended family, as of tomorrow my husband and I celebrate our first anniversary. In my husbands words about the past year "It's been awful," and he is the optimistic one!
I don't know why, but I have always wanted to write a book. I also wanted to be a family counselor, nurse, own an antique furniture business and many other things as well. I am in school taking prerequisites for nursing, loved my psychology class (I think I might minor in psychology which could lead to counseling), bought paint today to begin refinishing furniture, and I guess this is my attempt--or the closest I am going to get for now--at writing a book.
If I wrote a book, it could be about myriad of things that I have had first hand experience with; "Do's and Dont's of Divorce" or "Dating and the Single Life" or "Keeping Your Sanity While Raising Your Kids as a Single Parent" or "What To Do With that Other Woman In Your Husbands Life" or how about "How Not To Be a Dumb Parent" or "What To Do When Your Step Children's Mother Doesn't Want to Parent"; these are just a few. I am choosing to do something that I am experiencing right now, in hopes that I will be able to improve and enjoy this and make it a greater experience versus one of those that you just muddle through and endure. I also hope that with the divorce rates at nearly 50 percent and remarriages at roughly 4 out of 5 of those that divorce; that I might be able to provide some help and/or inspiration to just one family. There are many blended and non-blended families out there who are attempting to make something wonderful of things that were once and in some ways still are; broken. It is also my prayer that this will help me to make wonderful things happen within the confines of my family, so that I will have good things to say and report here.
Okay, I got this thing started; bear with me while I think of the best things to say here in my little space dedicated to this subject; my family. ; )
I welcome your emails at gator5909@yahoo.com. In the mean time my prayers are with you and your families where ever you are and that you are having great and wonderful experiences.
Saturday, January 2, 2010
His Plus Mine Equals Us
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Gail what a great idea to start this blog. It will probably be therapeutic to be able to put down your feelings. This is a good time of year to get started, before the list grows. It will be fun to check in and see how you are doing. I Love ya!
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Hey Aunt Gail. I love your humor. This is a great idea. I bet there are quite a few people going through what you've gone through right now and you could give them counsel. I bet you could help a lot of people. Even advise on how to safeguard your marriage. You should become a fan of other people's blogs like yours and start building a following. You could also talk about the classes you're taking and what you're learning. How fun. Best of luck!!!
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